Highly Sensitive Series (Part 8 of 9): Accessing the Deeper Self – Healing Through the Subconscious Mind (Spirit Series 2 of 3)
Mar 31, 2025
Welcome to the second part of our Spirit Series. As we continue our transition from exploring the mind’s patterns and the body’s wisdom, we now journey into the deeper layers of our inner world - where past experiences, beliefs, and emotional imprints are held within the subconscious mind.
Though we often think of the subconscious as part of the mind, this deeper layer is also where our soul’s truth - and pain - lives. It holds the emotional echoes of our lived experience, and quietly shapes how connected or disconnected we feel from our spirit.
For many highly sensitive women, this is the space where long-held beliefs like “I’m too much” or “My emotions aren’t safe” were formed - not through logic, but through felt experience.
In this part of the series, we’ll explore how subconscious healing can lead to emotional freedom, why sensitivity is actually an advantage when doing this work, and how you can begin to gently rewrite the stories that no longer serve you.
This part of the series isn’t just about healing - it’s about remembering.
🌿 Remembering who you were before the world told you who to be.
🌿 Remembering that your sensitivity is a strength, not a burden.
🌿 Remembering that deep within, you already hold the key to transformation.
For highly sensitive women, healing often feels overwhelming - like there’s always more to process, more to fix, more to uncover. But what if healing wasn’t about effort? What if it was about allowing?
The subconscious mind doesn’t respond to force - it responds to gentle, loving invitation. This part of the series isn’t just about healing - it’s about remembering who you truly are.
The Deep Self You’ve Always Known
Beneath the stories you’ve been told, beneath the patterns you’ve repeated, there is a deeper self - a place within you that has always held clarity, love, and truth.
For highly sensitive women, this deeper self is both a refuge and a mystery. It carries the memories of our past, the emotions we have not fully released, and the quiet call of the person we are becoming.
But sometimes, it feels hard to reach.
❌ Why do I keep repeating these emotional cycles?
❌ Why does healing feel like an uphill battle?
❌ Why do I know so much, yet still feel stuck?
The answer lies not in the conscious mind - but in the vast, untapped realm of your subconscious. And when we learn to work with it instead of against it, we unlock something truly transformational.
Your Sensitivity is a Gift, Not a Limitation
Many of us have been told that our sensitivity makes life harder - that we feel too much, think too deeply, or struggle more than others. But what if your depth of experience wasn’t just a challenge - but a unique advantage?
The concept of vantage sensitivity (Pluess & Belsky, 2013) confirms what many of us have always felt:
🌿 Some individuals don’t just process more deeply - they also thrive more profoundly in healing environments.
🌿 Highly sensitive women are wired to transform faster when given the right tools.
🌿 Our subconscious is highly receptive to change - meaning deep healing is not only possible but inevitable when we create the right conditions.
This means you don’t have to fight harder to heal. You simply need to allow yourself to step into the environments and practices that naturally support your transformation.
Why Subconscious Healing Is Essential for Sensitive Women
Most of us have spent years trying to consciously shift old emotional patterns. But as Dr. Candace Pert’s research on the mind-body connection shows, emotions are not just thoughts - they are stored biochemically in the body (Pert, 1997).
This is why we can’t just "think" our way into healing. The body remembers what the mind forgets.
🌿 When we heal at the subconscious level, we release emotions at their root - where they first took hold.
🌿 When we gently rewire old patterns, we stop living in the shadows of past experiences and start shaping a life that reflects who we truly are.
🌿 When we stop forcing healing and start allowing it, the transformation happens effortlessly.
Rewriting the Stories Held in Your Subconscious
Dr. Lisa Feldman Barrett’s research on emotions (Barrett, 2017) reveals that our feelings aren’t fixed - they are predictions made by the brain based on past experiences.
💡 What does this mean for you?
✨ The anxiety, fear, or self-doubt you feel isn’t always about the present - it’s often your brain trying to "predict" how things will go, based on past wounds.
✨ You are not stuck - you are simply living out subconscious expectations that can be rewritten with compassion.
And the good news? You don’t need to relive the pain to heal from it.
The Most Gentle Path: Heart-Centered Hypnosis & Deep Subconscious Healing
💡 Dr. Tara Swart’s research on neuroplasticity (Swart, 2019) confirms that the subconscious mind is most receptive to change when we enter a relaxed, theta brainwave state. This is exactly what hypnosis facilitates.
Through hypnosis and subconscious reprogramming, we can:
✔ Shift deep emotional programming effortlessly
✔ Release limiting beliefs without reliving pain
✔ Rewire our nervous system for greater peace and safety
Subconscious healing is not about digging up trauma - it’s about gently replacing old emotional pathways with new, more loving ones.
Conclusion: Returning to the Self Beneath the Stories
You don’t have to force your way into healing.
You don’t have to dig through every layer of your past to be free.
You are already on the path - because you are remembering.
As you continue gently inviting your subconscious to soften and release, know that your sensitivity is not a barrier. It is a gift. A guide. A signal that you are meant to live from a place of deeper truth and connection.
Let this part of your journey be filled with grace, safety, and trust in your inner wisdom.
Reflection Questions
💭 What outdated belief is your subconscious ready to release?
💭 When do you feel most connected to your deeper self?
💭 What does emotional safety feel like in your body?
💭 How can you bring more softness into your healing process this week?
Drop a comment or share what’s unfolding for you - you never know who might be walking a parallel path and feel encouraged by your truth. 💛
Next Steps: Experience the Healing Power of Heart-Centered Hypnosis
To support your healing journey, I’m offering the gentle, heart-centered hypnosis recording featured in our last discussion:
Returning to Yourself: A Guided Hypnosis for Wholeness 🌀
✔ Cultivate heart-based awareness and inner balance
✔ Release stress & emotional barriers with ease
✔ Reconnect with your body’s natural rhythms of renewal
✔ Feel a deep sense of wholeness and authenticity
This simple, nurturing practice invites you to realign with your sensitive spirit - no effort required, just relaxation and receptivity.
Access Returning to Yourself: A Guided Hypnosis for Wholeness
- Pert, C. B. (1997). Molecules of Emotion: Why You Feel the Way You Feel.
- Barrett, L. F. (2017). How Emotions Are Made: The Secret Life of the Brain.
- Swart, T. (2019). The Source: The Secrets of the Universe, the Science of the Brain.
- Aguirre, C. (2020). Neuroscience of the Gut-Brain Connection.
- McTaggart, L. (2007). The Intention Experiment: Using Your Thoughts to Change Your Life and the World.
- Pluess, M., & Belsky, J. (2013). Vantage sensitivity: Individual differences in response to positive experiences. Psychological Bulletin, 139(4), 901-916.
This blog is part of The Re-Aligned Journey™ — a Three Phase Spiral of Healing and Remembrance. Ready to explore more? Join The Re-Align Circle™ to begin.
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